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Mother whose son was born with one arm and no legs says not having abortion was “best decision in her life”

A mother whose son was born with Amniotic Band Syndrome (ABS), a rare syndrome that inhibits limb growth in the womb, says not having an abortion was the “best decision in her life”. 

ABS is a rare congenital condition in which bands of tissue inside the sac of fluid that surrounds a baby in the womb tangle around the baby’s body, causing injury due to reduced blood flow. This happens when there is a rupture in the inside sac and is usually detected by ultrasounds between weeks 12 and 18 of pregnancy. The type and severity of injuries vary but most usually impact the arms and legs.

“I never considered terminating”

Rosie Higgs, 29, who works as a special needs school assistant in London, learned of the possibility of her son’s condition while pregnant. She faced questions from friends and family over whether she would choose to terminate the pregnancy but “never considered” doing so.

Her son Henry was born in May 2020 without legs and with one arm with a webbed hand. Higgs told Teesside Live: “When Henry’s brother first saw him he said ‘Eugh’ – but that wasn’t because of his limbs – it was because of his umbilical cord”.

Henry was delivered by caesarian section at Northwick Park Hospital, and later had an operation at Great Ormond Street Hospital in order to separate his webbed hand.

Higgs said: ”When I was told my baby would only have one arm – and no legs – I was so worried and upset”.

”There was no doubt in my mind that I was keeping him – no matter what I was advised. He’s able to pick things up without any problems which is really surprising. He’s progressing really well”.

”Henry is happy, he loves sitting up in his highchair, but we have to be careful. He’s not able to use a baby walker because it wouldn’t be safe for him because he doesn’t have his bottom limbs”.

“Luckily the midwives were absolutely incredible. I was so stressed throughout my pregnancy and when Henry was born the midwives asked if I wanted to see him straight away because I was nervous”.

‘”Scans can only tell you so much. It was such a build-up and a worry when he first came out I didn’t know what to expect”.

”As [Henry’s dad] passed me my little boy I fell in love”.

“He’s perfect”

Since Henry’s birth, Rosie has received support from charity Reach, which specialises in supporting children with upper limb disabilities.

She added: “Thanks to the charity I’ve been in contact with loads of parents in similar positions”.

”They’ve been amazing. They’ve really helped me get through it. The house is something that we’re going to have to adapt as he gets older because it’s not suitable the way it is at the moment. That is a bit of a worry”.

”But he is such a happy chap and doesn’t let his disability hold him back in any way. He’s a flirt, he’s got a cheeky smile and he’s always laughing. He loves his big sister. He might not have all of his arms and legs, but he’s absolutely perfect to me”. 

Abortion available up to birth for disabilities

Currently, abortion is available up to birth in England, Wales and Scotland if the baby is diagnosed with disabilities such as ABS, Down’s syndrome, cleft lip and club foot. If a child does not have a condition, there is a 24-week time limit.

Polling has shown that the majority of people in England, Wales and Scotland feel that disability should not be a grounds for abortion at all, with only one in three people thinking it is acceptable to ban abortion for gender or race but allow it for disability.

Right To Life UK spokesperson, Catherine Robinson, said: “Heartwarming stories like Henry’s show that, whether inside or outside the womb, a baby is a baby and deserves to be treated with love and care. Babies must be protected under the law and not experience lethal discrimination simply because they happen to have a disability. By permitting abortion up until birth on grounds of disability, there is an implication that the lives of disabled people are worth less than the lives of others”.

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Only hours left of the appeal to build on the momentum from the defeat of the assisted suicide Bill and make this victory last.

Dear reader,

Thanks to the hard work and dedication of people like you across the UK, after a two-year battle, MPs voted by 286 to 270 to reject the Edwards assisted suicide Bill.

This followed the defeat of the McArthur assisted suicide Bill in Scotland by 69 to 57 in March this year.

Many commentators thought both Bills would become law.

If that had happened, this would have led to the deaths of many thousands of vulnerable people over the coming decades.

Because supporters like you acted, those Bills were stopped.

Because of you, many vulnerable lives have been saved.

A prominent pollster described the campaign against these major attempts to introduce assisted suicide, which brought together people from all walks of life across the UK, as one of the “most successful 21st Century UK social issue campaigns”. You helped make that possible.

WHY WE MUST NOT STOP HERE

What we have achieved together is extraordinary. But we must not rest on our laurels.

Dignity in Dying, a multi-million-pound pressure group, has made clear that it will keep campaigning to legalise assisted suicide. 

We cannot wait until another Bill is brought forward. We need to keep pressing for better care and strengthen the case against legalisation now.

WHAT COMES NEXT

The next phase of our Support Not Suicide campaign will operate across Parliament, media, online and in grassroots communities in every constituency across the United Kingdom.

Our focus now is to build on that momentum from the defeat of these assisted suicide Bills and make these victories last.

We want to build a United Kingdom where assisted suicide is seen as unnecessary – and where legalising it is seen as unthinkable.

The first part of that work is a sustained push for universal access to high-quality palliative, hospice and social care. No one should feel driven towards assisted suicide because they cannot get the care and support they need. 

We have already asked supporters to contact their MPs about improving care. With your help, we will keep that pressure on in every constituency, brief MPs and Peers on gaps in care, and make the case for better provision in the media.

The second part is building on these wins to ensure more MPs and more of the wider public understand the dangers of legalising assisted suicide. We will put evidence of those risks before MPs and Peers. We will work with mainstream journalists to bring the voices of people directly affected, doctors and other experts into the national conversation, and produce clear videos and articles that supporters can share online and in their communities.

Our network of 250,000 supporters covers every constituency in the UK. Thanks to people like you sharing our content, our posts and videos have been viewed more than 100 million times online in the last year. 

We want to utilise that massive reach for this next phase of the campaign.

WE CAN ONLY DO THIS WITH YOUR HELP

The two-year fight to stop these Bills drew heavily on our limited resources.

To replenish those resources and fund the next phase of the Support Not Suicide campaign, we aim to raise at least £199,250 by midnight this Sunday (4 October 2026).

We are, therefore, appealing to you to please give as generously as you can today.

Every donation, large or small, will make a crucial difference in protecting vulnerable lives. Plus, if you are a UK taxpayer, £1 becomes £1.25 with Gift Aid at no extra cost to you.

Will you donate now to help make these victories last and protect vulnerable lives?

Urgent appeal 
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Help stop three major anti-life threats.

Only hours left of the appeal to build on the momentum from the defeat of the assisted suicide Bill and make this victory last.