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Talking a loved one out of suicide is ‘coercion’, claim MPs

MPs who are trying to introduce assisted suicide in England and Wales have said that talking a loved one out of ending their life through assisted suicide is ‘coercion’.

In an interview on Sky News the day before Second Reading of the assisted suicide Bill, Labour MP Cat Eccles claimed that, in those jurisdictions in which assisted suicide is legal, coercion “actually happens with relatives trying to talk loved ones out of having an assisted death”.

The presenter, Kay Burley, said “People who are against [the Bill] come on the programme and say to me, [they are] worried about people being coerced by relatives and loved ones into doing something that they perhaps don’t want to do”.

Eccles replied, “Yeah well actually the evidence we’ve seen from other countries that have introduced assisted dying laws is that the most coercion that actually happens [is] with relatives trying to talk loved ones out of having an assisted death”.

In response to Eccles’ claim, one X user said “Eight years ago I had a full mental breakdown, due to work burnout. I was standing in my kitchen with a knife in my hand. My wife ‘coerced’ me to put it down and seek help but you @catecclesstour would happily see me dead”.

During the debate at Second Reading, Kim Leadbeater also suggested that the true source of coercion arose from family members who tried to prevent someone from choosing assisted suicide.

In the debate, Independent MP Richard Burgon made an intervention about the possibility of people being coerced into ending their lives and his concerns about people ending their lives over fear of being a burden. In response, Leadbeater said “Evidence from other jurisdictions shows clearly that coercion tends to happen the other way; what tends to happen is that families try to prevent the person from making the choice of an assisted death”.

In Queensland, Australia, where assisted suicide and euthanasia have been legal since 2021, it is a crime to coerce another person to “revoke a request for access to voluntary assisted dying”.

Evidence of “self-coercion”

During the debate on Friday (29 November), Mother of the House Diane Abbott, Danny Kruger, Rachael Maskell, Dr Ben Spencer, Tim Farron, Anna Dixon and Carla Lockhart all discussed the potential for coercion into assisted suicide that this Bill creates.

Kruger, Farron and Maskell made particular reference to the problem of “self-coercion”, an issue that the Bill does not even attempt to address, where a person ends their life or is tempted to end their life, in order to avoid being a burden.

Of the thousands of people who have ended their lives by assisted suicide in Oregon since 1997, 47.1% listed “Burden on family, friends/caregivers” among their end-of-life concerns.

Tim Farron said “[T]here is the risk of self-coercion. Many of us will have heard older relatives utter words similar to, ‘I am a burden to you. You would be better off without me.’ We all know reasonably instinctively that people will present it as making a sovereign choice, but it will be a choice born out of coercion. Unless there is a clause in the Bill that I have missed to employ mind readers, no amount of doctors, safeguards or bureaucratic mechanisms will prevent those who self-coerce from opting to die simply because they assume that no matter what their loved ones say, everyone would be better off if they were dead”.

Kruger referred to self-coercion, as opposed to external coercion from others such as family and the state, as the “bigger danger”.

“The Bill has nothing to say on that. Internal pressure is absolutely fine. If you feel worthless or a burden to others, if the NHS will not offer you the treatment you need, if the local authority will not make the adjustments you need to your home, if you have to wait too long for a hospital appointment, or if you want to die because you think the system has failed you, that is absolutely fine”, he said.

Labour MP Rachael Maskell made the same point saying “Intrinsic coercion is very real, not least where the law has changed—rapidly becoming an expectation, verbalised as a duty to die. In fact, not wanting to be a burden is cited as a major reason to opt for an assisted death, alongside loss of dignity, loneliness, and needing personal care, yet every day, disabled people live in this reality”.

Spokesperson for Right To Life UK, Catherine Robinson, said “It is deeply disturbing that these MPs seem to believe it is a problem for family members to attempt to persuade a loved one not to end their life”.

“It runs directly contrary to our ideas about suicide prevention and the idea that suicide is a tragedy. Kim Leadbeater and Cat Eccles should not be facilitating suicide and implying there is something wrong when others intervene to try to prevent someone from taking their own life”.

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Dear reader,

Thanks to the hard work and dedication of people like you across the UK, the McArthur assisted suicide Bill in Scotland was defeated in March by 69 votes to 57.

Then, in April, the Leadbeater assisted suicide Bill fell in the House of Lords.

Many commentators thought both Bills would become law.

If that had happened, governments in England, Scotland and Wales would now be preparing to roll out assisted suicide services.

Over the coming decades, this would have led to the deaths of many thousands of vulnerable people.

But that is not what happened.

Because supporters like you acted, those Bills were stopped.

Because of you, many vulnerable lives have been saved.

These were two very significant victories. But sadly, they are not the last battles we face this year.

The new Parliamentary session began on Wednesday. We now face three major threats.

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    The assisted suicide lobby, led by Dignity in Dying, a multi-million-pound pressure group, has made it clear that it is going to attempt to bring back the Leadbeater assisted suicide Bill in the next parliamentary session.

    It then plans to use the Parliament Acts to bypass the House of Lords and force the Bill into law.

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    Under these plans, the Government would financially incentivise major abortion providers, BPAS and MSI Reproductive Choices, to provide ‘lunch-hour’ or ‘same-day’ abortions.

    ‘Lunch-hour’ abortion services are walk-in abortion services designed to fit into a woman’s lunch hour.

    Women facing an unplanned pregnancy need time, care and support, not a system that gives abortion clinics a financial incentive to rush them through consultations, scans and abortions on the same day.

    If these plans go ahead, many more lives are likely to be ended by abortion here in the UK.

  3. Extreme abortion up to birth proposals in Scotland

    In Scotland, plans are moving forward to introduce an extreme abortion up to birth law. This would go far beyond the abortion law change recently backed by the Lords for England and Wales.

    A review of abortion law in Scotland, commissioned by Humza Yousaf when he was Scottish First Minister, recommended that the Scottish Government scrap the current 24-week time limit – and abortion be available on social grounds, including for sex-selective purposes, right up to birth.

    The final plans are expected to be brought forward as a Government Bill in the new Scottish Parliament, which began on Thursday.

If these three major threats succeed, thousands of vulnerable lives will be lost.

We cannot allow this to happen.

We can only defeat these three major threats with your help.

We ran our biggest campaigns ever to help defeat the assisted suicide Bills at Westminster and in Scotland.

That work has made a serious dent in our limited resources.

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